We got up around 11am to messages that were sent at 8am. we have no idea what triggered them. Three of them in rapid succession, for no reason.
Well here i go again. i no ur starting ur job 2nite becuz i still have not seen u i dont no whats going on..anyway i would like the grandchild book i got Buggy brought back i didnt think 2 say it..thought it was self explanitory..also got his lion for here..unless i will b cing him less now which i no is ur plan..she said she was looking into a job out in spencer which i kno she is not going 2 drive out here 2 drop Buggy off and then go back out 2 spencer. so i already no my gramma time is going 2 b limited. i alsowould like to keep the rocker while ur ou in spencer. it is an antique and was a gift when i was at least being treated like a gramma..right now i don t no what u would call me. but im not feeling very loved by my son whom i raised so much better than what im cing now. u never did talk 2 much and u have a chip on ur shoulder about how spoiled sarah is and how deprived u were.. not tru all around. we need 2 talk. really. do u think u can spare any time 4 me?
Just as an aside, the rocking chair, was a shower gift. and the book, was a christmas gift to the baby. I assumed it would go home with him.
And i dont want 2hear we have been moving cuz again u didnt ask us 4 help or anything..if u want me 2 leave u alone just say it..dont use buggy to punish me
Why doesn’t moving count as a reason to be busy? just because we don’t need you to move our stuff for us doesn’t mean it’s easy.
Also..dont no what 2 tell nicole..she made everyone fudge..cookies..and popcorn balls.. u never came back so i could never give them 2 u.. it is VERY obvious that ur family doesn’t matter anymore. i can’t deal with that. so anyway when u c cousin nicole let her no u never came back 2 get them. and jr. say thank u 2 her.. 4 some reason all ur manners went out the window.. so at 26 i got 2 remind u 2 thank people..also r u gonna need me 2 watch LO this week at all? if so i need 2 no ahead of time so I can get grammy to help me. i figure u didn’t bring him all weekend so u wont let me c him this week either. i can’t believe ur dong this 2 us. y jr? y r u doing this? keeping LO from us? we didn’t get 2 c him much at all this christmas weekend. i didn’t hear from u at all..haven’t seen LO since friday. i bet her family has though huh?
yes… my dad saw him saturday, because we were moving stuff into his house, Buggy slept through most of it. and nobody was butthurt. And WHY would we be comming back to your house at the end of the night.. you never even made a peep about wanting us to. We are NOT mind readers.
So now Scabbers starts to try and reason with this lunatic, reminding her that he made sure to come visit her christmas eve cause we would be visiting alot of people on christmas. and how we got to her house at 11am and hung around til 3 or so before heading out to see my mom. we had to be home and settling down by 7 cause Scabbers works overnights now and wanted a nap.
everybody saw him 2hrs? im not counting the nap and also i was cooking both christmas day and eve preparing for company..no not 2day i am cleaning.. i no he was with them saturday 2..dont bullshit me.. am i rite? he was with her family saturday? i no u were busy cuz sarah txt u 4 a ride..where was buggy then? u must have been packing.. i am just gonna go to arizona next year.. melissa wanted us to go but i said no i need to be here for Buggys firts christmas. I wont make that mistake ever again. then u wont have to even bother with us.. u wont have to fit us in.. u can talk 2 dad from here on out i have nothing more to say. except i want to see Buggy this week, when? and just so u no it was very important 2 me 2 c him christmas day. if i gotta take the back seat 2 her family 4 the holidays then i cant fight it but how sad that my own son is a part of it.. and the extended family thanx u 4 the 20min they got..
acutally we spent MUCH more time at her house, and yes Buggy took a nap, but he’s 4mos old. he needs to. Scabbers says something to effect of he doesn’t know why she’s so upset and he thinks we’ve been plenty fair to everyone. None of my extended family has seen him at all. so his should be happy. (Just for reference my parents are divorced, my dad opens gifts on xmas eve to keep my mom happy)
well what time did u leave her dads on christmas eve? and what time did u leave her mothers on christmas day? the truth..no bullshit.. cuz that is really my issue here..it was a holiday. i got shit on thanksgiving..it’s not my fault she wasnt speaking with her mother last christmas.. i no she had said b4 that she didn’t want to come at all on christmas cuz she didn’t get to c her mom last year.. just let me no if this is the kind of shit im gonna have to deal with.. cuz i cant. i wont. i wi.l just go away for the holidays from now on..then who cares. if u were home all day then y didnt u think of us saturday? we would have liked 2 c him then..do u want 2 b left alone? i mean just say the word..cuz that is the way it looks..and feels..
Why should we be forced to keep track of the TIME we spend at different places? Also, Thanksgiving, my entire family had plans, we spent the whole day at her house. and I never said I wanted to spend the whole day at my mothers, my mother and I fight, alot. we can be good for a couple hours, but that’s it and we know it. I was entertaining the idea of not going anywhere on christmas.
On satuday I had to work. and before I went to work I decided to spend a little time with one of my friends, who is home on a school break from her school in Florida. We live in MA. She had yet to meet my son and I thought it would be nice.
AND AS A BONUS! Here’s the jewel she sent Scabbers yesterday after I didn’t call her back the night before. She called while I was at work (I work at night, 6 days a week most weeks, the SAME TIME EVERY NIGHT. And she left no voicemail, just a missed call so I assumed it wasn’t important and maybe she got ahold of Scabbers. I get out of work at 1030 at night. she gets up at 530 in the morning. I wasn’t going to call her back!
so..whatsup? i figured i would contact u cuz ur not gonna contact me..u remember me..ur mother? u have 1 u no. i no i;m the shittyest mother in the world. ive never done anything 4 u..never been there 4 u.. oh wait! no thats definatly NOT E! i dont no what ur problemis jr but i shouldnt have 2 chase u around 2 c how things r. im so sorry i gave u that car. especially now. u treat me like shit and i dont deserve it. ur father and i went without on our anniversary so u could have that car. thought u should no. anu ur way of thanking me is i got a whole hour and a half with my grandson on his first christmas..i didnt get 2 hold him or play with him.. or spend any time with him. thanx. oh well im going to read to bring Brian to work. kiss LO 4 me. tell him i love him and i miss him. have a nice day!
Our car broke beyond repair the week before we had bug. Obviously we were in a rough spot for buying a car but seeing as we both work within walking distance of home that we would tough it out for a few weeks and such. she bought a car for us. we didn’t want it after the shit she pulled at his birth. but Scabbers was really really sure it was a one time loss of sanity.
he was wrong.
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