I thought I had the good group of friends… I thought I was really good at picking out the sincere friends. I was pretty sure all of them were honest. I’m not saying with everybody… but with me and the group. We’re not always the most honest with everybody else. But with eachother… I thought we had all the virus protection against liars and whores.
I’ve been proven wrong.
Friend walks up to Meggie and Jake
Friend: Hey.. (insert name here) is comming back from suspension tomorrow… wear a skirt with me.
Jake: you see friend THAT is why boys always get so frustrated and pissed at you!
Friend: huh? wha–
Meggie: Because you dress like a whore when you’re at school with them and when you’re alone with them you go all holy virgin body on them! Gawd! and no, I won’t wear a skirt tomorrow it’s WINTER.
Needless to say… Friends wears the skirt. There you have a tease… and a terrible mean thing to do in my opinion. I think of females who dress with the short skirts and then a pair of BOOTS? that’s screams I’m easy. Sorry to anybody that offends… but a short denim skirt and a pair of knee high boots? Not appropriate if you’re going to be playing the Holy mother mary later.
I am NOT bashing keeping oneself pure and all things. I’m bashing False Advertising. femininsts who wear lowcut shirts then tear a guy a new one when he stares. Bother me. Alot… put them away if you don’t want them looked at. I NEVER have this males-only-look-at-my-chest problem. Never ever. Wanna know the secret to not being treated like a ‘piece of meat’? WEAR SOME CLOTHES!
If A decently attractive male was walking about wearing some awesome chest and stomach showing off shirt. you’d look. You would. you know you would. you won’t get in trouble for it… because his nipples are apparently much less sacred than your own. You want equality? there you have it. You’re nipples are only as secret as a guys! And we see guys man-boobs all the time! Still want you stinking equality?
Sorry… offtopic a bit
the second… user… No I don’t mean guys… guys have very little to do with this one actually. Friend wants to hang out with her boy past her curfew because he ran late in meeting her. I’m okay with this. I see how this makes sense. I would feel the same way if I was her. My method of doing so… would be VERY different though. I would not manipulate three different friends to do it. I would call one friend and say “Hey… can I crash at your house after I’m done hanging out with the boy?” they would understand and say yes, parent allowing. and that’s how it goes.
This is the magic of the truth. it is simpler.
This is what Friend did. She got My sister to invite Friend 2 to sleep over. then called her own father… asked him if SHE could sleep here too. Her father says yes. Friend then approaches me and says that Bridgy invited Friend 2 to stay the night and claims she misses hanging out with me since I moved. I say fine and ask Bobbert… he says yes after laying down the ‘be quiet’ rules.
Friend leaves to get her stuff from Friend 2’s house and comes back. Talks to the rest of my family then leaves again. And doesn’t come back until 12 40 at night. Walks into my room and goes to sleep.
I would be totally okay with this is she had told me that she wanted to crash at my house after. because I would have asked bobbert ot let her crash in my room later.
Because if I’d said that. dad would not have been so very confused by how i ‘didn’t spend any time with my friend and she must feel rejected’
when in reality it is the other way around. Well… I don’t feel rejected.. just annoyed that she isn’t telling the stinking truth.
Wow! Another very mature post! You have many great points, #2Niece! I enjoyed reading it and seeing how you would have handled things differently. I am sorry you have to deal with stuff like this but most of us do at one time or another so it is nice to see that you seem to be able to learn something from it.
And just yesterday you were bouncing around in moon-shoes! **sniff** You’re getting so grown up!
who are you kidding? I STILL bounce around in my moon-shoes
XD I’m not growing up at all.. don’t worry hahaha
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great post! You seem to be years beyond most kids. Thats great! Sadly, stuff like this will still happen to you as an adult, just in different forms. Just stand up for what you think is right, and be honest, with yourself and your friends.
grrr, i can see how that would frustrate me too. and i wish i could say that people grow out of that, but they don’t. The only difference is that you’ll have reached a point where you just decide to have the people who benefit you and uplift you in your life.
btw, your pics are great over at teeni’s place!!
:: blush :: Thank you both ^.^
oh noes… they don’t grow out of it… lamesauce… XD
Some girls aka whores only know how to get attention with their bodies… Granted it’s the wrong type of attention but I am sure they see it as better than the alternative of no attention. It’s sad a scary because they put them selves in crappy situations dressing that way..
I teach high school dance/ colorguard and see this all the time. Good for you for respecting your self and for taking the “high ground”. You will be a better person for it and it will save you a lot of grief!
What a great post! You put it exactly how it should be said. I had a few froends like that in highschool. But at least you realize that and don’t try to make yourself to be like them. You seem like your own person and that is such a great thing.